Hi there! I’m so glad you found your way here. 💛
Welcome to You, Me and Benny, a little corner of the internet where life with pets, everyday adventures, and finding joy in the small things all come together.
If you’re new here, let me introduce myself and the crew.
My name is Ashli, and I’m the human behind this blog.

I’m a dog mom, cat mom, reader, movie lover, and someone who believes that life is better when we slow down enough to appreciate the little moments. Around here, you’ll find stories about life, pets, mental health, fun adventures, and sometimes just the random thoughts that pop into my head.
But I’m not the only one running the show…
This blog wouldn’t exist without the furry family members who inspire most of the stories.
Benny – The heart behind You, Me and Benny. Loyal, sweet, and always ready for an adventure.
Cash – Our lovable goofball who keeps things exciting and occasionally chaotic.
Draco – Our dramatic cat who definitely believes he’s the main character.
Falcor – Calm, wise, and slightly royal in his attitude toward life.
You can read more about the pets here –
https://youmeandbenny.com/meet-the-pets/




Life with this crew is equal parts adorable, hilarious, and unpredictable.
If you stick around, here are some of the things you’ll see on the blog:
🐾 Pet stories – Life with dogs and cats is never boring, and there’s always something funny happening in this house.
📚 Cozy life moments – From reading books to enjoying simple weekends, sometimes the small joys are the best ones.
🧠 Mental health & encouragement – Honest conversations about anxiety, growth, and getting through life one day at a time.
🎃 Fun & spooky content – Because I love a little spooky vibe mixed into life.
Basically, this blog is about real life, real joy, and the little things that make a big difference.
Beyond the blog, you can find us sharing laughs on our podcast, showcasing our favorite finds on our Amazon storefront, and spreading positivity across social media platforms like TikTok and Facebook.
Thank you for stopping by. Let’s embark on this journey together, celebrating the little things that make life wonderful.
Feel free to follow us on Facebook for all of our life updates – https://www.facebook.com/afdogmom
Thanks for being here and spending a little time with You, Me and Benny. Whether you’re here for the pets, the stories, or just a bit of positivity in your day, you’re always welcome.
Now grab a cozy drink, make yourself comfortable, and explore the blog.
We’re happy you’re here. 🐾