Right now, things feel hard. Heavy. Maybe even overwhelming. Some days it feels like you’re carrying more than you ever signed up for, and no matter how much effort you put in, progress feels slow or invisible.If you’re feeling this way, you’re not alone, and more importantly, you’re not failing. Hard seasons have a wayContinue reading “When Things Feel Heavy, Keep Going Anyway”
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Making It Through the First Few Weeks of the Year
The first few weeks of the year can feel… heavy.As we talked about previously here – https://youmeandbenny.com/2026/01/15/the-new-year-is-hard-and-thats-okay/ There’s so much pressure wrapped up in January. New goals. New habits. New expectations. Everywhere you look, someone seems to be thriving, transforming, or already “winning” the year. And if you’re feeling tired, unmotivated, or unsure, it canContinue reading “Making It Through the First Few Weeks of the Year”
The New Year Is Hard And That’s Okay
We’re told the new year is supposed to feel exciting. Fresh. Motivating. Like a clean slate where everything suddenly clicks into place. But for a lot of us, the new year feels… heavy. The holidays end, routines change, expectations pile up, and suddenly there’s pressure to be better, happier, more productive all at once. IfContinue reading “The New Year Is Hard And That’s Okay”
2026 Is Going To Be the Best Year Yet
There’s something powerful about standing at the edge of a new year, especially one that feels different. 2026 isn’t arriving quietly. It’s stepping in with momentum, clarity, and the promise of growth we can feel in our bones. After everything we’ve learned, healed from, and survived, this year isn’t about starting over. It’s about steppingContinue reading “2026 Is Going To Be the Best Year Yet”
My 3 Go-To Ways to Boost Confidence on Hard Days
We all have those days, the ones where nothing seems to go right, where your reflection feels off, your motivation disappears, and your confidence seems to have packed up and left. I’ve been there more times than I can count, like yesterday for example., But over time, I’ve learned a few simple habits that helpContinue reading “My 3 Go-To Ways to Boost Confidence on Hard Days”
Why My Dog Is My Daily Reminder to Slow Down and Smile
Life moves fast. Between work, errands, and all the “should do’s” on my never-ending list, it’s easy to get caught up in the chaos. But every single day, my dog reminds me to pause — to breathe — and to find joy in the little things. When I see that wagging tail or those big,Continue reading “Why My Dog Is My Daily Reminder to Slow Down and Smile”
Why I’m Grateful for the People Who Stayed… and Those Who Didn’t
As I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized that not everyone is meant to stay in our lives forever, and that’s okay. Some people are lessons, some are blessings, and some are both. It took me a while to accept that truth without bitterness, but now, I’m… grateful. I’m grateful for the ones who stayed, the peopleContinue reading “Why I’m Grateful for the People Who Stayed… and Those Who Didn’t”
My Favorite Cozy Shows and Movies to Watch This Fall
Fall is the season of warm blankets, fuzzy socks, and mugs filled with something hot and comforting. The air feels a little crisper, the days get shorter, and suddenly, staying in and watching something cozy feels right. If you’re like me, you love curling up on the couch with your dog, lighting a candle (orContinue reading “My Favorite Cozy Shows and Movies to Watch This Fall”
Falling Into Better Habits This Season
There’s something about fall that always feels like a fresh start to me. Maybe it’s the cooler weather or the way the leaves remind us that change can be beautiful, but this time of year always makes me reflect on how far I’ve come and where I want to go next. If you’ve been followingContinue reading “Falling Into Better Habits This Season”
How I’m Romanticizing the Everyday (Even on Hard Days)
Life isn’t always sunshine and sparkles, even when we wish it was.Some days just feel heavy! There are mornings when the coffee doesn’t hit right, the to-do list feels endless, and I catch myself running on autopilot. But lately, I’ve been learning that the secret to feeling better isn’t waiting for the big moments. It’sContinue reading “How I’m Romanticizing the Everyday (Even on Hard Days)”